seems to me.... like there is tooo much counting and keeping score going on... sorry.. just an observation... but when someone is keeping track of how many times they pleasure their partner in a particular way... and keep track of how many times their partner FAILS to return the "favor"... it SCREAMS TROUBLE!!!

Maybe you need to consider moving on and finding someone WILLING to take care of your needs.... rather than someone who seems to come up with plenty of reasons not to... yet seems to be more than happy to continue being on the receiving end of things..

Life is way to short.......... find happiness...