human nature... I think... and maybe the fear of rejection... or atleast that is my experience... I find it hard to believe what I think I see when it may come to a man being interested in me... so.. I explain it away... "ah, he didn't mean that", or "I must have misunderstood that"... etc..

as a woman.. I guess it just never enters my mind that a man could be scared of sex... maybe I am wrong..