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First I would truly like to welcome you to our “happy group” NightRider.

We truly DO enjoy and care about each other here very much, and I have to tell you now that some of your phrasing has caught some of our notice and is making us pay close attention. Especially among some of us hopeless old fucks with the “PROTECT” imprint from another time-culture.

I hear a real frustration with your dilemma that may make some of this a little hard to digest

, but hear me out, as I’m attempting to do for you.

These are the points that stood out to me.

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I'm a long time lurker. I've done a lot of reading of posts…..
….. Is this a case where everyone does a lot of talking but no doing? Are the women just attention whores, …..
…..why people, especially women, are so willing to share their sexy pics, thoughts, stories etc but not actually share their bodies……
…..something missing in my marriage where I need to go elsewhere to get it then I should get out of the marriage. I could say the same thing to everyone here. If your relationship with your SO is such that you need to post what you do here, then you are missing something important to you and should find another companion that gives you what you want. That makes about as much sense doesn’t it?

Actually no. It is coming at the subject from opposite ends I believe.

First I hope that your lurking has been for more than the few days you profile indicates. There is a LOT of serious material buried in our fun antics. It’s from real people that have been there. The sincere advice given above is from folks that come here with a SEXUAL COMFORT level that may be the main difference. We “share”, not just run in and “take”. These recommendations were addressing NOT adding complications to an already troubled situation. Our people come here as couples, as singles, straight, bi and gay. They COME WITH more experience than some others and with evolving considerations and desires. But they don’t RUN FROM an unsatisfactory relationship and expect to meet somebody with a trapeze over her bed to rectify there personal problems. That IS what you will only find in a whorehouse or from confronting the issue.

The “doing” here, whether fun conversation or international meeting and fucking each others brains out, is done with a “personal relationship” of respect and desire on all parties part. You can fuck our ladies if they so chose, but don’t fuck WITH our ladies or you’ll find more attention than you may have expected.

Hope what I said helps clarify the honest and polite replies you were given.