Ok so Im going to sound like a marriage councillor...

Have you discussed your sexual relationship openly and honestly? Telling what you wish she would be more willing to do, and seeing what her fears are? IF they are unjust, then allowing her access to show why these fears are unjust.

If no compromise can be made in this area, then have you been frank about your need for a sexual release outside of the marriage. With the emphasis that it is release vs anything else?

Barring all this. If she is uncompromissing on any of these. While you are also.

Then why the hell are you still together?

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.sixsense.