It's not really your age that has a bearing on what you want, it's more your life experiences.

Most young people haven't had the life experiences that help you know what they want. Granted most life experiences tend to burn you and help you learn what you DO NOT want, but they do help you figure it out. "Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, don't need to do it again, thanks."

We all hope things work out for the best for you, your little girl, and your boyfriend.

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"Even a man who is pure of heart
And says his prayers by night
Can become a wolf when the wolfbane blooms
And the moon is full and bright."