So far he's been great with my daughter. We've gone to the zoo and the mall and he buys her things and plays with her. A lot of my friends won't even do that because they don't want people to think she's theirs lol. But as far as that goes he knows that she comes 1st no matter what and he's very good to her. I was going to tell him that we should hold off on everything for a while, but then what if he is the one and I just blow him off? then that would suck highly. i'm just very confused right now. Then last night I went to his house and we were hanging out and he asked me to spend the night so I made babysitter arrangements and I did. Then we just laid on the couch watching tv and we went to bed. nothing happened at all. so if he just wanted sex like he claims then what is that about? and then when i try to leave in the morning he never wants me to go. i guess that's why i'm confused maybe we just think differently.