Thank you all sooo much. It's so nice to have an outside opinion. I will take everything that was said here into consideration. and about my daughter I would never do anything to hurt her or put her in a bad situation. I am trying to figure this out for me before she is even brought into it. so far she's just seen him when we go to his house and play. just like when we go to my brother's or another friend's. there's no attachment yet and that's why i was trying to figure it out. but thank you all again so much. i still don't know what i'm gonna do lol, but i'll try to sort it all out.

Heather