i agree with most peeps here, there is n age but theres a time, it should be when you think your mature enough.. unfortunately the people see that as an age and not a psychological state. i mean once a person becomes sexually active and wish to do it then they shouldnt be forced to sit back and wait until the come of the age which is imposed. if my child (note i dont have one yet) wants to do the stuff i did when i was like 13 and over when theyre 13 then the only thing i can do is help em.... cos man i was FRUSTRATED when i was that age, cos i was stuck between a boy and a man and didnt know which i should be.

i was 14 when i lost my virginity, and i regret it.. i didnt understand what we were doing and i didnt even like th person, i was drunk... so in the end i wasnt ready, this comes back to me talking about when i have a kid, im not gonna push em out there going "go get em kid" and i wont be "i dont want you to have a girlfriend/boyfriend until your 16" but i will be sure that if they wanna do it they understand (and hopefully it wont be one of those embarrasing chats with your parents you always hate)