Good Poll- Good questions!- I truly believe that one should wait until they are ready... and HOPEFULLY it's not when they're too young to deal with all the responsibilities and possibilities that go along with having sex.

I cant tell you how much I regret/loathe my "first time". It's now quite obvious it was with the WRONG person (I refuse to call him a man). It was really quite accidential in a way... We had only been official for about a month, I was 20... I hadnt really planned on sleeping with him. I was niave and didnt think much about his 'hints' about "going for it". He misintrupreted one of my signals while fooling around...

Well they say hinde-sight is 20/20... Luckily the guy I'm seeing now is extremly patient. We've been dating since April and recently declared ourselves "official/ exclusive/ steady" (whatever ya call it) Lets me lead, and specifically told me: whenever I'm ready... He'll be willing ;-)...

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