heather,
This sounds like a very difficult situation but there are some things you might want to consider carefully. When he gave the "I'm not the guy for you speech" is it possible that he was really saying something else? Like maybe you are not the girl for him? Please don't take this the wrong way, I am just trying to figure out why he would say that if he really wanted to continue the relationship on a permanant basis. It sounds like he is not ready for a commitment in a relationship from what you wrote. How do YOU feel about moving back back home with him? Would this move cause you to become dependant on him? And what if you move back and then he decides to end the relationship? Just my thoughts... Good luck!

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