I'm 21 and the guy I'm sleeping with is 28. He moved out where I am from another state in September. I am pretty much the only person he knows here. I have a 13 month old daughter by another man and the guy I'm seeing is okay with that and he is very good to her. We've been sleeping together for 3 months and I am really getting attached to him and like him very much. He has already given me the whole speech about how hr's not the guy for me as far as a relationship but then he gives me mixed signals - like when we're supposed to hook up sometimes he gets really tired and we just go to bed, no sex or anything. Well, usually he helps me out but nothing for him. And the other day he was telling me how when his lease is up he's probably going to go back home, but how he wants me to go with him. So i'm very confused by this whole thing. He seems like a very nice typical guy who's probably afraid of commitment or whatever. I really need help on what to do. Do i tell him or just keep it to myself? also sometimes when he has to work late i get upset because i can't see him and he thinks it's because i don't get any sex and he gets mad. so pleeeaaase give me any advice you can. i'd appreciate it so much. sorry this is so long

heather