I'm with Steph! Depends on how big the wedding will be as to how far out of my close circle of family and friends I'd extend invitations. When I got married......we paid for the wedding ourselves....and so there had to be a cut off point. There will be angry people no matter where that cut off point is! If you and "cousin" are just beyond the limit (didn't make the cut), try not to be resentful......at least till you know the reason why you didn't get an invite. Might be just a matter of money and not something more personal. If you do get an invite.......the past is the past and life has gone on....so yes, I would go and eat drink and be merry up a storm!

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