...then picture that I started dating your cousin and I went out with her for 4 years, lived together - the works. We haven't seen each other for 2 years because you now work overseas. We weren't close-close but we hung out and have mutual friends.

Now you are getting married, you know that I have a partner...do you invite me and your cousin to the wedding, just the cousin and not me or me and not the cousin.

Or do you not give a shit?

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