Gus has it. You two need a date where you get to enjoy each other and know going in that you are going to get lucky. Maybe even some new lingerie to enhance the mood. Go for it girl!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours