Hey a good friend of mine suffered terribly from exactly what you are experiencing. When she and her hubby tried to conceive there were fertility problems.
Her regular Gyno completely missed what were obviously the symptoms of endometriosis. She had some surgery to clear the uterus voila! Pregnant and what do you know??,her cramps were greatly reduced in the subsequent months since childbirth.

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