This trap does advertise lookout there is a wolf loose in the room when you go through all the rouble of making a special setting of pillows and special foods.

My favorite is to let her think you are going on a casual date, just jeans and what not and show up dressed to the hilt. Black formal suit and pants. Odd though that I have had really possitive comments on wearing a black dress shirt and red tie. But of course the whole of the trap here is just not the suit, but to be an absolute purfect gentleman. It also helps to buy the more colorful drinks rather then just beer.

Lastly to be very attentive and have small gifts as "lures"...say a rose works wonders