now these are simple enough traps...I myself thought of making a special setting by asking a lady over to dinner after placing a large plush carpet in the center of the room, then piling large soft pillows around a serving table with all the specialties I can cook up in the kitchen (like honey roasted beef and sweet fried noodlesn; 5 kinds of cheeses; fruit like pairs, peaches, and green & purple grapes sprinled with powdered surgar, and dark chocolate fudge brownies)--and of course the whole room lit with candles and paying some very quiet chamber music.