Thanks, Lilith! I just like to know what I'm doing. I'm a sex nerd, I know. I've just seen some posts from people mentioning the A-Spot and having A-Spot orgasms, and it just reminded me of the fact that I haven't figured that out, yet.

Staying well read, well informed, and increasing my knowledge (being nerdy and clinical) really works for me. And I keep that aspect of my personality out of the bedroom - except to use the knowledge that I gained through doing my homework, because Lixy is exactly right - if you are trying to concentrate on pulling off some "special move" rather than focusing on your lady (or man), then you are missing the point of lovemaking, anyway.

That being said, knowing where everything is located, etc, makes me more confident in the bedroom because I feel that rather than guessing or hoping that I know what I'm doing, I'm confident I know what I'm doing. For me, information leads to confidence and to keeping things fresh and exciting in the bedroom by trying out new things all the time. I can do this while focusing on my lady without making it clinical. Lovemaking should be intimate and passionate, not dry and clinical. I keep the lines of communication open in our bedroom, too, so I know my lady doesn't feel that I'm dry and clinical in the bedroom.

Thank you for your help, everyone!