I dont think a guy HAS to come in your mouth. I would never turn down a bj.... even if i didnt finish in your mouth. It feels better to finish that way. but its never a MUST for me.

I also never mind if she does finish me in her mouth and then spits out the results... he should be thankful you are blowing him in the first place! Does he go down on you?

Are there other guys out there for you? Maybe that should b a consideration...