i could kinda relate to this timidana. i was in military school during my high school years. all boy dorming school, hardly ever went home, no real girls around all year. so when i went to college, it was a total shock! i mean even in the suite of the dorm i stayed in, the only boy room was me and my roomate, and the four other rooms were occupied by girls. it was also my first experience on how if a girl beats you to the bathroom, either no shower or your late for class.

but yea it took some getting used to. if my eyes were like regular muscles, i must have been running miles everyday with them darting all over the place. what i'm going to eventually say here, is that take your time. don't just rush into it with someone. that is somewhat of the problem i see with most people's relationships these days. priority seems to be sex first, getting to konw the partner second. should be the other way around. don't let people around you make you think that just because you have no experience mean anything at all.

and yes, do read the forums. there are a lot of information there. you can learn a lot from the wealth of experience the members of pixies have put together. hope my babbling helped!