I feel for people who come into this situaton for the 1st time...

ok 1st up best thing to do is ask yourself is your man wanting to do this because of the distance (how ever far) or because he thinks by giving you this chance your experiencing life to the fullest ?...something to think about asking...

but to move on my husband & I looked for a single girl to join us for a fmf 3sum for 2 years because i am bi sexual & thought it would be great to experience this with him as i had already had fmf's earlier in my life & he well he wasnt allowed lol (ex wife jealousy normal stuff) ...when we couldnt find anyone we both liked or who liked the both of us because i am also a BBW we decided to look into swinging we joined clubs in australia & met some nice people & some not os nice people & we clicked with 1 woman but not with her husband so after 2 time sof playing we found someone else even though I still chat to this other woman .we also found my darling girlfriend & her husband & we play as often as is possible for us all (as we have kids)

but lately I have been wanting to try single guys for a mfm & hubby is kinda ok with it but hasnt quite come round to the idea but the whole thing is whats good for 1 is good for both .
anyway getting off track my husband has no intention of leaving me he loves our life style & he loves playing with other women .
but we are married so we are solid as we can be for now so before you go into it then you need to talk more about it make sure you both want it & stay happy hope this confusing post helps lol....jade :heart:

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