Hi All
We have been injoying the swinging life style for a year now but will say we have been married for 22 years, before we tried it, we did alot or research and then talked about what we would do and what we would not do, what we held scared to each other and would not do with anyone else, we have both had the fantasy of extra female and extra male we have enjoyed both and as we went into this with the view it was to enhance OUR sexual relationship, not a quicky sex treat, both of us have to have some sort of attraction to either him or her, and we both give and take , condoms are a must and any party has the opportunity to say no and stop at any point in the play.
this give both the opportunity to feel comfortable with what is happening, and feel they are in control of the suitation, All i can say to you is think hard set your boundries and know you can stop it at any point make all involved with play understand this.
it should make for a happy swing time for all concerned.

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