Definately in the bedroom, on top of the comforter, in the nude, on my back with legs apart (much like the picture) but with pillows propping me up into a semi-sitting position and more pillows under my legs at the knees. Room's dark except for a candle on each nightstand and there's lavender massage oil and sometimes a little buzzing sound, slightly muffled. Earplugs and a blindfold have, at times, added to the eroticism. As if to say "someone can be watching me right now and I'd never know it but I'm so ready to come...I just don't care!"

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.