I'm afraid I have to be seduced that first time. Don't get me wrong, I flirt like anything...but I can't make myself cross that line without overt permission from the other person involved. After that, sure, I can be aggressive. But that first time, I have to be on the receiving end.

Which is a bit of a shame....I'd love to have been the seducer at least once. And I'm suddenly aware that I may have missed lots of opportunities because of my little quirk .