In the throws of passion I don't think it matters who initiated things. Truthfully I think it's sexy as hell when a woman makes the moves although I've only ever experienced it once. As for guilt, You can seduce your wonderfully enticing ass off and if there's no interest (must be comatose) it won't work. 50% guilt max.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery