Hi, Divot!

1) My favorite position for giving anal sex is where she starts out on all fours. I enter her. She pulls her legs inside mine and closes them tight. Then she collapses flat against the bed with me flat on top of her. I can be right up against her body without hurting her, as I'm actually supported by the bed on either side of her. It's a VERY comfortable and intimate position for us.

2) I don't like receiving anal penetration, but I do like anal stimulation. I have discovered a way I can do this myself during masturbation. I take a washcloth, wad it up, and cram it around my anus. Then I clench tightly to hold it in place. While I am sitting or laying down, I can rock back and forth on the washcloth to stimulate my anus and prostate. It works VERY well for me.

I have a hands-free masturbation method you can try if you like anal penetration. Get some anal beads (the kind with a string). Tie a slip knot around the end of the anal beads (add you own string to it if it isn't long enough). Open the slip knot, insert your foot and close the slip knot tight around your ankle. Now bend your leg at the knee, bringing your foot close to your anus. Insert the beads into your anus. Begin masturbating. When you wish, just straighten your leg to remove remove the anal beads.