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Old 09-21-2003, 02:59 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: The Midwest
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Your Existing Situation
Needs, and insists on having, a close and understanding relationship, or at least some method of satisfying a compulsion to feel identified.

Your Stress Sources
Outraged by the thought that she will be unable to achieve her goals and distressed at the feeling of helplessness to remedy this. Over-extended and feels beset.

Your Restrained Characteristics
The situation is preventing her from establishing herself, but she feels she must make the best of things as they are. Willing to become emotionally involved and able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity, but tries to avoid conflict.

Your Desired Objective
Seeks an affectionate relationship, offering fulfillment and happiness. Capable of powerful emotional enthusiasm. Helpful, and willing to adapt herself if necessary to realize the bond of affection she desires. Needs the same consideration and understanding from others.

Your Actual Problem
Depleted vitality has created intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on her resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects her to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security.


As for my actual problem, I wouldn't say things are THAT severe! It is sort of eery that the results above do relate to not being able to find a job and needing to find my own place in the world...
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