I like the way you count Belial .

Fzzy said it. For fun, any old spark will do. Could be anything, with me. I've "sparked" at people for the damnedest reasons...and not regreted any of the ones who became playmates.

But for a relationship, they need a lot more than just that spark. They need a sense of humor, a sense of who they are and what they want, respect for themselves and for others, kindness, consideration, intelligence, confidence, a sex drive that can keep up with mine, and a sense of adventure. They also had to live at my speed, want what I want from life, agree with me about how one deals with problems between us, how one raises children, and (important though prosaic) how one deals with money. Oh yeah, they do still have to have that spark.

It was always a hell of a lot easier to get into my bed than into my life. Momma taught me well .