
09-19-2003, 07:51 PM
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Lusting Horny Pixie
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Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: In your imagination
Posts: 4,292
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racevixen...
First...... RELAX  Seems like you are concentrating on the icing.. and not the cake.  Just my opinion..
Secondly... and this might sound completely stupid... but you are relatively YOUNG... women (in general) are not blessed the the "easy" mechanics that a man has when it comes to the ability of having an orgasm. For the most part.. for a man.. a little stimulation goes along way and it doesn't take them any amount of experience to achieve orgasm.. whether alone or with a partner. Women are all together a different breed.... there are far more components to a womans ability to achieve orgasm. I can tell you that making "orgasm" the number one priority is only going to serve to delay it.
In my opinion, the key to an orgasm for a woman (solo or with a partner) is not only her personal acceptance of her desires and the knowledge that comes with experience.... but her ability to let her self go. It is a matter of trust.. and a feeling of complete acceptance from/towards your partner... and the absence of shame
Good luck... with experience the orgasms will cum 
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