I can't hold a grudge, but I do let people know (politely) what I think. And I prefer same.

((and divorce would be a very final way to declare your independence...at least legally))

How far would you go to make amends?

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney