In most ways, it sounds like you and your wife feel about your kids the same way my ex and I do. We managed to work out our separation agreement ourselves, only needing the sharks, sorry, I mean Lawyers, to put it through the court! We actually get on better now than we did for the last 6 or 7 years of our marriage!!

Grumble, I'm sure what you're doing IS the best thing, for both of you. Hopefully, you'll get a palce soon, and be able to really start living your life the way YOU want!

Best of luck mate.

DM & CA

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind