Get yourself some thin ribbon, preferably scarlet, breaking strain

about four ounces.

On arrival, tie him naked to the bed with the ribbon.

Tell him that if he breaks the ribbon, the weekend's celibate.

Give him the best body rub you can, baby oil or some such.

If he's been good, take hime to dinner some-where ( extend

the suspense) and then fuck his brains out.

Just an idea.

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