Hey Lil, sorry to hear about the crap server!!!

If you're willing to pay a little bit, mxhub.com looks reasonable.
For $9.95 per month for adult hosting, you get a lot of stuff, it seems.

Looks more than adequate for your needs!

http://www.mxhub.com/hosting/adult/

Good luck!!!
Your site was great while it lasted!

CasperTG

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You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

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