It can be tough to break down those inhibitions at first, but if you're willing to let yourself enjoy sex with your hubby, that may be half the battle won already... take your time, you want this to be a lifetime of fun together... and TALK really talk to each other about each other wants & needs, I can't over-emphasize real communication in a long-term relationship... with 27 years of marriage under my belt, I believe that has been the difference for me & the LOML

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