Thank you Lilith for the lovely idea

we are new to all of these things...My mother had it drilled in my head that sex was not to be enjoyable but an obligation...so I need to be enlightened......I want this new marrage to work...we were in a rutt as you would say.....we seriously need to spice things up a bit or should I say I need to......we have never used toys so if anyone has any ideas let me know....toys for a newbie..............lol so to speak............lol