Hi Roamingsubbie,

Welcome to Pixies!

Just as with any relationship the one of D/s should be given time to grow. Don't be so anxious that you jump into something with your eyes closed. Remember your a sub, not a door mat. Be fully informed before making a decision. And if someone speaks in riddles.... hire a translator so you are clear on what thier saying.

Good luck. Keep in touch if you'd like to, either through here or PM's.

teddy