Forget the soapbox, milkcrate, etc.... I'm jumping up to the top of my car... :O
As 2-4-tea said...
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one of the greatest things about this site is that the people are real
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That's reason #1 why I love Pixies! Real people aren't auditioned, hired and then airbrushed to hide imperfections. Imperfections are what makes us all unique, and to me, that uniqueness is very sexy. I appreciate it when anyone shows the guts to post a pic and take the risk of what people may think. I believe it's our responsibility after viewing a posted pic to show the maturity to respond with encouragement... or not respond at all! If no one posts a favorable response, then a message is sent that implies it wasn't liked all that well without a hurtful comment. Fortunately the tastes here vary as much as the types of people that post pics. If you post, there's almost, (note: 'almost')
, a guarantee that someone here will be into it.
And a message for those that are eager to be "honest" and put someone down... try and look for something appealing in the post first, if you don't see something that strikes you, your silence could be considered a reflection of your opinion. The beautiful part is that a non-response doesn't have to mean a negative one.
Heck, Pixies has a couple thousand registered users, I think, so there's bound to be a favorable response from someone! My first post only got about 4-5 responses..., (Which I think is pretty average for the Mens pics section), but personally, I'll focus on the responses I got, not the ones I didn't! So instead of taking the time to put someone down, why not check out a different thread that's more to your tastes...
Well, I've said my peace. (At least for now!)
Better get down from here... all this Washington rain is making the roof slippery...