Wanda...
Well said.

I was a virgin until I was 23! I can't imagine jumping right into anything!

monstar- just enjoy the sex. Treat it as special...and not something she's OBLIGED to give you. Sex is a gift, not a paycheck. Once you learn the difference...and treat her as if she were truely the giver of the gift, she may be more comfortable giving it more often. And by all means...GIVE BACK! Shoot!

If none of this helps, I recommend plenty of masturbation!

From the bar of soap...

Ophelia