Welcome to Pixies, Pound_Boy. Different places have different traditions, feelings, and community views on sexual practices. Not sure that anyone knows if that's right, wrong or indifferent.

Just for me, it seems a little sad that a man would take such delight in the love of his partner, then intentionally say something that would give her a bad reputation. I'm afraid I don't understand that guy's logic.

These are just my opinions. Maybe some of the other Pixies will have their thoughts to add. Good luck.