I notice that after my wife climaxes from oral she's wet and warm when I enter her, but when I change positions and enter her again after having her climax during intercourse she is very tight.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.