I really don't understand why any attempts for guys to support each other on what is to us a major issue always attracts subtle or not so subtle censorship.

If a young woman wrote in concerned that young men might find her ugly, or her ass too fat, or her breasts too small or too big, you would all be incredibly supportive.

Big Dan makes the point well - so please don't patronise us.

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