"Women, do you dislike receiving cunnilingus?" It isn't that I dislike it; it's that I either haven't had the opportunity to participate in it or have discouraged my lovers from doing it.

"If so, why?" I adore giving head and I've been told I'm very good at it. So that is NOT the reason. No, I am not too sensitive; if anything, I need more and/or firmer stimulation that average. And, no, I don't think it is too dirty.

When my ex and I separated and I started to have sex w/others again, many of my male lovers made comments about my anatomy "down there" that embarrassed me so much and made me feel so self-conscious that I didn't want them to come near me there. I'd purposely not allow myself to get hot enough to come that way. I'd avoid participating by turning the tables and focusing the attention on my lover, being sure he was satisfied and worn out instead. So unless I think my lover will really accept me the way I am or actually be turned on by the way I am, I can't relax enough to let him attempt it.

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