Thanks everyone.
Steph, there are no evil smokers. I smoked for 13 years, so I have the utmost empathy for smokers. I quit using the patch, but I did it weird. I wore the patch during the day and ripped that sucker off after supper and smoked until bedtime. In the morning I would put on a fresh patch. That cut me down from a pack and a half a day to a pack a week. One day, I decided I wasn't going to wear the patch, I was going to smoke all my cigarettes that I had left and then be done with them, and I did. I stayed on the patch until I had to give them up too lol It was hard and I was angry, but I got over it