I totally agree. Funny...in the past I could easily masturbate on cam in a chatroom for a bunch of strangers, but for phone sex I had and have to have some kind of relationship/friendship w/that person. It has to really mean something.

I once had a partner who lived far enough away that I could see him only about once a week, if that. I'd call him up, horny, and ask him to talk me through an orgasm. I became so conditioned to his voice, that I could cum anywhere at any time w/o being touched just from hearing his voice. Best conditioning I've ever experienced.

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