I can only agree with what everyone else has been saying here, the guy needs the mental equivelent of a big bucket of ice water tipped over him.

I truly hope you can work things out, but don't try and hang on to a useless situation, i did once much to my regret.

Having said that, you may still be able to get things back on track.

As with the others, if you need to talk PM me and remember you have the support of the Pixies

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Life? O that thing again!

"I now leave you to your moosey fate"

Are we there yet?