Well katie I read this thread and had a tear or two for you.

Its so sad. I took to the computer because I was being ignored but if I had someone to come home to who wanted to make love and talk about the day, I would be sooo happy to do it.

Porn is no substitute for the real thing.

I would weigh my options very carefully because I can see heartache if you dont bring him around pretty quickly. I was soft soaped several times and in a month or two it was back to being as bad as before.

You wont change him, he has to want to change and he is in a comfort zone.

I dont like your chances very much but i wish you luck and you can chat on line or we could talk by phone if you would like to have a friendly ear.

Hugs
Grumble