Craig,
The only thing more stupid than a forty two year old man trying to enter a woman for two hours when she is not arroused/wet is the 32 year old woman letting him do it. Now some questons to ponder... Does your wife plan to continue having this affair? Maybe a different one? Can you trust her again? Does her having sex (or trying to)with someone other than you hurt you? Do you love her? Does she love you? Think and think again about what the future could possibly be like if she continues this type of activity.Good Luck.

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