helenearth---I agree with luv2please.My wife didn't seem like she
enjoyed doing it;but;at least she tried;because she knew that I
enjoyed it.He sounds like he is ;very;self centered and doesn't
give a damn about you.My advice--Dump Him.There is no such thing as a "bad"BJ.Some are just better than others! Irish
P.S.I'm sure that there are others that would enjoy your exper-
imentation!

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