Do you believe you can love, really love more than one person at once?

*Yes.........but in many different ways. One person can't be everything to another......so as a natural instinct "we" seek what will fill up the space left by one with the attributes from another! I say "we", but don't necessarily think everyone feels this way. I still love my first love.......but I don't want him in my life! He fulfills something for me and I take that at face value. Love can be a touch.....a kiss.....a memory......a common thread.......a common need..........a shared moment! Love is what is in your own heart.......no definition required! So a love for one person can be completely different than a love for another. And.....I'm talking the intimate love.....the romantic love........not the love you'd feel for your parents or siblings or children!

Do you think it diminishes the importance of loving someone in that intimate way if you love someone else as well?

*No........How can loving be wrong? Murder is wrong....hate is wrong.....loving can't be wrong! Life is too short! My heart is big enough to handle love in it's many variations!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~