I wouldn't necessarily call them my ideals, but they are just clues that are often common when someone is cheating. They are some of the more common taught to private investigators and those in law enforcement. Looking back I noticed several of them from my ex-wife before I found out she had cheated on me.

You might also look at the following sites (not endorsing them, just for info):
http://www.tristarpi.com/signs-of-infidelity.htm
http://www.cheating-spouse-check.co...of_acheater.htm
http://www.infidelity-infidelity.co..._infidelity.htm